爸爸的希望

曾经听过这样一个故事。老师给孩子的家庭作业是回家采访爸爸。采访的主题是“爸爸对我的希望”。一个孩子的采访被老师作为范文刊登在校刊上。可孩子却感到非常没面子，因为他如实地记录了爸爸对他的希望：“吃得下饭、睡得好觉、笑得出来”。他觉得太俗了，和其他爸爸希望孩子以后成为科学家、企业家、明星等实在不能相提并论。

长大以后，这个孩子真的当上了记者，采访了很多所谓的成功人士，可他发现很多人都时常吃不下饭、睡不好觉、笑不出来。紧张、压力使很多人吃饭没胃口，睡觉得靠药物，笑容多是职业化的······ 包括他自己，他发现自己已经很久没发自内心的开怀大笑了。

这时，他才知道原来爸爸对他的希望比当科学家、企业家更难。而他小时候以为很俗的三句话恰恰是每个人都应该做到的。所以我在这里真诚的祝愿所有的读者们每天都：吃得下饭、睡得好觉、笑得出来！=)

-- 摘录自《把心带回家》369-370页

I'm a hunter again

Yeah, don't get me wrong. I'm not hunting for Rudolph, Santa or whatnot (Even though X'mas is coming real soon... Oh maybe I should, threaten them for some gifts. *Grin* Just ignore me.). I'm hunting for a new job now. Why? Because I've had enough, I can't stand of staying in this company and working with a selfish faggot boss like this anymore. @$%&#$&#@%! *Ahem* Sorry, trying to calm myself down before I started to cuss again.

Anyway, I just got my pay yesterday and I expect to have some raise end of November but guess what? When I got my pay, I rubbed my eyes, popeyed, stared at the RM column of the cheque and slapped myself to ensure I'm not in the dream. Nah nolah, just kidding. I can see well OK! I'm sensitive to the number thingy (Yeah yeah, I'm stingy, I know. Who's not? Speak out!). Same number. WTF?! No? NO RAISE? Seriously? I've been here for 1 year 4 months now and no raise at all? Are you kidding me? Even people who work in Supermarket get some raise each year, that's a very normal thing, although there's no rule saying that it's a must and I can't sue the faggot boss, of course. (Dang!)

Oh did I ever mentioned he's quite a kind boss in a long-long-time-ago's post? Forget it. I think I just got it wrong, SO WRONG! I said he's kind because he won't scold us and he's not the strict type. WRONG!  He just doesnt give a fuck about employees and as if we never deserve better. He's hoping to feed us with same amount of grass everyday but expecting us to plough more and more land. Ha! He wished! (Shit, why do I describe myself as a buffalo?! =_= *scratch head* Forget it, it's just an example ok.) There are too many weaknesses hidden behind that which I slowly discover them days by days. Not gonna reveal it here, if Imma do that, this is gonna be a long long looooooong post. Yeah, you're right, too much to mention. You've got one of them though, STINGY and SELFISH (Excuse me, should be 2.). Even a computer mouse rosak is enough to drive him crazy because he just wished he doesnt have to spend any cent, it's best that all $$$ just go into his pocket and lock inside and out.NO.MORE. True, this happened before, we're like why the fuck is that so vexatious for you, it just costs a few bucks to get a new one.

Anyway, I hope I can get a better job opportunity *fingers crossed* and of course I have to go and hunt it by myself. Opportunity doesn't come to you, it's there but you have to go and strive for it. Know what I mean? So let's fight, wish me luck and good luck to those who are looking for a new job too. =)
(P/S: If you wanna know about the company's name, just PM me. LOL. Just Kidding. No, I mean I'm serious. I'll tell you personally if you really wish to know. =P)

Congratulations! :)

First of all, congratulations to my besties, Nee Ping and Li Shu who were just officially graduated from their Degree last Sunday. I'm so happy and proud of them. =) Please quit thank me for attending the convocation, it was my pleasure to be able to join the precious moment with you. And because of you, I've got the chance to see the new hall of UNIMAS. LOL. It's such a great and memorable experience.

 Nee Ping & Li Shu

 They're cute, aren't they? Like kindergarten graduands in oversize regalia. Hahaha! =P

 With part of her gifts, she's got so many gifts and wishes that day. Cant denied that she's really a very kind girl, like very very very kind, helpful and friendly. That's why she has a wide social, you'll know by looking at the gift and wish she's received. =)

 Me, him and her. 3 of us have a very special relationship, not the one that you're thinking alright. =P She's the matchmaker of me and my boyfriend. Hehehe! Long story. *Shy* I know it sounds dramatic and funny but it's true.

 Everyone left for their own further studies and careers, only 3 of us are in Kuching at the moment. Kinda sad but this is normal, everyone has their own dream to fight for out there.

 Group photo

 We've been taking lots of picture together that day, couldnt resist. LOL. =P

 Besties =)

And this is me wearing Nee Ping's regalia and fooling around. Sorry for being silly. = =

Oh oh! And this huge screen, cool! But I heard that running this screen is like running 16 air-cons inside if I was not mistaken. Really? Wow! That's so not environment-friendly. Luckily they only on it during special occasions.

Nee Ping and I have been known each other for like 16 years now, since we're 7. Like I said, she's a very very very kind girl. She helps whenever you need help; she listens whenever you need a shoulder or listener; she'll just be there for you. She's like an angel that was sent down by dear God to be a friend of mine. Too exaggerate, I know, but it's true. =)

There is a quote saying: "Strangers think I'm quiet. My friends think I'm out-going. My best friends know that I'm completely insane!" Yeah, and they how insane I actually am. =D

Li Shu is currently working in Singapore and Nee Ping has further her study to PhD, so wish both of them luck. Congratulations once again!

Should I?

Recently, I keep wondering should I quit my blog, it's like half abandoned since I only update it like once or twice a month. The truth is I dont have much interesting topic to share about in my life, yeah my life is normal and very normal, or should I called it dull? Whatever. My blog just looks... BORING. That's it. Not much people read about it as well, only those spammers who keep spamming my blog. Well at least there are spammers who passed by my blog right? Be optimistic. LOL. =P

Overall, my blog functions like a personal diary more. Even diary will be updated more often, I know. But I can't write about my personal stuff here right, this is like a public space, and I don't wanna share about those bad things in my life, I'm not meant to be here to sadden or annoy everyone. Or should I just keep it as jotting down some precious moments (I mean precious for me but maybe "nah~" for you) of my life journey, what I've been doing and when or where I've been to? Yeah, maybe. You know like sometimes we just need to talk to ourselves like what I'm doing right now, or was it me only? Self mumbling or nagging, that's what I always did. LOL. I like to talk to myself.

See, I probably bored you out again derp. Oh maybe I'm worried too much because that's no one who actually read this. *giggle* *inhale* *exhale* Errr fine. So emmm that's it. Still thinking... Derp derp! (Bye bye!) ￣3￣

Belated Birthday Surprise For Myself

Yay! I'm so happy yesterday because firstly, I got my parcel finally. It's my new bag, got it for my own birthday present. Secondly, I got my donor card, I'm officially an organ donor right now. I've been waiting for these 2 items for almost a month, and both of them arrived at the same time yesterday. =D I know it's weird to give myself a surprise (or it's not called a surprise at all? Nah~ I don't care. =P), but nothing's wrong as long as I'm happy about it.

 My parcel! =D

I love my new bag so much ♥ =)

I got it from Niceshop. I usually shop at PGMall, but this bag is out of stock there, so I switch to Niceshop. The quality of bags available on these online stores are actually quite well. Of course you can't expect them to be as high quality as those branded one, you get what you pay for, you see. I've bought several bags from them and I'm satisfied about it so far. The price is very reasonable as well.

Besides that, I got my donor card, like finally! I always wish that I could be an organ donor and now I am one of them eventually, I'm proud to be one. =) In my opinions, when we're born, we brought nothing to this world; so when we're died, we should leave with nothing as well. So why don't we donate our organs to help those who needed, and part of us still live with someone, somewhere in this world.

If you're interested, you can register yourself on National Transplant Resource Centre's website, A Gift of Life. Online registration only took you a few steps, it's kinda easy and convenient. Once your registration is successful, you just have to wait for the ID donor card to be mailed to your address. No hassle. =) I'll show you how with the screenshots provided below.

Of course you'll have to read and understand all the information about organ donation before you proceed to registration, so remember to browse around their website. And must remember to ask for your family or life partner's permission first, tell them about your decision.

"Tell your family about your decision to be a registered pledger so that your wish of donating your organ will be fulfilled. This will also make it easier for your family to allow your organ to be donated when and if the time comes." -- NTRC

To register, go to their website, A Gift of Life.
Click "Be An Organ Donor" and then "Online Registration".
Key in your email address and IC number for verification.

After the verification is done, you'll get this email.
Click on the link provided for the online registration form.

Fill in your details and submit.
(As for "My next of kin", you just have to fill in any one member of your family.)

That's it. You'll get an email like this once your registration is completed.

The ID donor card will be mailed to your registered address. =)

The donor card, this is what you'll get.

Remember to put it in your purse, it's recommended to put it together with your Identification Card (IC). You have to always bring it with you.

Some little simple things are enough to make my day up, wish you guys have your happy days too. By the way, October is around the corner, time never waits so do what you want and tell someone you love them always. Too many things happened in September, both good and bad. October, please be good. That's all for today, till the next time. Chowww! =)

Listen to me...

A gift or a present is something people usually give to someone during some special occasion such as Christmas, Valentine, and of course especially on Birthday. And people always said that the cost of present doesnt really matter, what really matter is the sincerity. I have a different perspective about the sincerity. For me, the sincerity represents your well observation and that you understand what a person needs or wants. I think it's such a waste if that gift is useless and unsuitable to that person no matter how expensive or luxurious the gift is.

In my opinions, we're all adult already so no more gift/present trick. I have a job and income, I can afford to buy the things that I needed by myself, so I dont want you guys to waste that money, seriously. I'll appreciate if you dont give me any present, I think it's such a waste of money, energy and time (as you have to go and hunt for the stuff everywhere and calculate the budget). Honestly, most of the present given are just left behind in the wardrobe, drawer or keeping box or even being donated. That's because most of them are useless to me or I found it not suitable to me. So why waste that money? I prefer you guys to save those money for yourselves, I know it's hard to earn every cents of them. And I rather you guys to make some donation for charity, to help those who needed, especially those poor kids suffering of starvation and disease.

Anyway, I know some of you might think "Nah~ Who cares, never see such a cheeky person." or "I know you're trying to remind us about your birthday *roll eyes* bla bla bla...". Whatever. I know I've been too straight-forward but I'm not meant to be mean, just trying to state the truth. I understand that September is a horrible month, my friends. I'm trying to help you guys to save your cash, you see. So please listen to me, remember DON'T give me any present. Lets just hang out and have a simple gathering together, that's more than enough for me, really. And yes, I mean it. =)

6th Anniversary ♥

"3 important days in my life: The day I was born, The day you were born, The day when "I" and "you" become "WE." -- The Notebook of Love.

Yeap yeap, today 25th August, is one of the important days, our most special day. It's our anniversary, we've been together for 6 years now. We've made it through many things together, either happy or sad, tears or laughter. =)

He's not a perfect guy, in fact no one is perfect, but some imperfections just make it perfect. For me, he's the most perfect guy, who makes my life complete, the one and the only one. He's a happy and sweet guy, he's never failed to make me happy and laugh out loud. When I'm with him, I feel very much comfortable and safe, I can just be the real me, no pretence.

I know some people just don't believe it but really, we never quarrel nor fight. We always solve our problems in a better way, fight/quarrel cant solve anything, it only makes it worse. And we appreciate every single moment together, so we don't use the precious moment to fight and create unhappiness, instead we use to understand and appreciate each other more.

Anyway, I just wanna say, happy 6th anniversary, my sweetheart. You mean so much to me. I truly thank God for having you, for leading me to you. Thanks for everything and sorry about being stubborn and hurting you sometimes. I'll always love you, more and more. xoxo. =')

"Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more you love, the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are; you end up being complete with your loved ones." -- Lovingyou.com